Wednesday, July 25, 2007
Discovery Channel :: News, Photo Zoom :: Jumbo Squid Invade Calif.
This is scary to me....kinds like science fiction coming to life. In fact, this picture doesn't even look real.
Sunday, July 22, 2007
Remembering Bad Times
I think of the late 60s and 70s as being a really Bad Time, for the US anyway, since that is the only place I can speak for. My husband was in Vietnam (but fairly safe on a ship), my mother in law read the Berkely Barb and spouted peace slogans. I watched babies, barely old enough to shave, sent off to die or be maimed, mentally and physically. I was home alone with 2 babies, watching the news and missing their father.
Now, do you wonder where I stand on this? So do I. I know where I stand on WAR....it should be avoided at all costs. I guess maybe anyone would say that, but then why did we elect a moron TWICE. Never mind.....I digress. I just wanted to share this piece of writing I recieved this morning.......
Jane deserves to be thrown in jail- not honored. Subject: Fw: She really was a Traitor - she wasn't a traitor, the bitch IS a traitor. -----
In Memory of my brother -in- law LT. C.Thomsen Wieland who spent 100 days at the She really was a Traitor IF YOU NEVER FORWARDED ANYTHING IN YOUR LIFE FORWARD THIS SO THAT EVERYONE WILL KNOW!!!!!!
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Friday, July 20, 2007
Worth Sharing
>>>
>> Subject: Growing old is a choice
>
>> The other day a young person asked me how I felt about being old.
>> I was
>> taken aback, for I do not think of myself as old. Upon seeing my
>> reaction, she
>> was immediately embarrassed, but I explained that it was an
>> interesting
>> question, and I would ponder it, and let her know.
>>
>> Old Age, I decided, is a gift.
>> I am now, probably for the first time in my life, the person I have
>> always
>> wanted to be. Oh, not my body! I sometime despair over my body, the
>> wrinkles, the baggy eyes, and the sagging butt. And often I am taken
>> aback by that
>> old person that lives in my mirror (who looks like my mother!), but I
>> don't
>> agonize over those things for long.
>> I would never trade my amazing friends, my wonderful life, my loving
>> family
>> for less gray hair or a flatter belly. As I've aged, I've become more
>> kind to
>> myself, and less critical of myself. I've become my own friend.
>> I don't
>> chide myself for eating that extra cookie, or for not making my bed,
>> or for
>> buying that silly cement gecko that I didn't need, but looks so
>> beautiful on
>> my patio. I am entitled to a treat, to be messy, to be extravagant.
>> I have
>> seen too many dear friends leave this world too soon;
>> before they understood the great freedom that comes with aging.
>> Whose business is it if I choose to read or play on the computer
>> until 4 AM
>> and sleep until noon? I will dance with myself to those wonderful
>> tunes of
>> the 40 &50's,and
>> if I, at the same time, wish to weep over a lost love ... I will.
>> I will walk the beach in a swim suit that is stretched over a bulging
>> body,
>> and will dive into the waves with abandon if I choose to, despite the
>> pitying glances from the jet set. They, too, will get old. I know
>> I am
>> sometimes forgetful. But there again, some of life is just as well
>> forgotten. And
>> I eventually remember the important things.
>> Sure, over the years my heart has been broken. How can your heart not
>> break when you lose a loved one, or when a child suffers, or even
>> when somebody's
>> beloved pet
>> gets hit by a car? But broken hearts are what give us strength and
>> understanding and compassion. A heart never broken is pristine and
>> sterile and will
>> never know the joy of being imperfect.
>>
>> I am so blessed to have lived long enough to have my hair turning
>> gray,
>> and to have my youthful laughs be forever etched into deep grooves on
>> my face.
>> So many have never laughed, and so many have died before their hair
>> could
>> turn silver.
>> As you get older, it is easier to be positive. You care less about what
>> other people think. I don't question myself anymore. I've even
>> earned the
>> right to be wrong.
>> So, to answer your question, I like being old. It has set me free.
>> I like
>> the person I have become. I am not going to live forever, but while
>> I am
>> still here, I will not waste time lamenting what could have been, or
>> worrying
>> about what will be. And I shall eat dessert every single day. (If I
>> feel
>> like it)
>>
>
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Wednesday, July 11, 2007
Family
We attended a beautiful family wedding this weekend and it got me to thinking about how special family is. I think we have a close family and we have managed to overcome some rough spots and all remain close in spite of them. I have to credit my great and forgiving kids for that, and pat myself on the back a tiny bit. =:+) And now we have gained another daughter in law (grandaughter in law in my case) and two more precious boys. And, BTW, we are officially gaining another dil soon and a beautiful little girl. In thinking, though, this is the first time I am a little disappointed. We have lost a family member and it really makes me sad. Actually, we have lost two family members, but one was to drugs and unfortunately we can't do anything about that...hopefully someday he will return. Everyone makes their choices and we have to accept that, I guess, but we don't have to like it. I feel bad, because when one looses touch with his/her roots, I think it is a shame. Families have so much to offer each other....... We are there for each other to share the good times and bad, sad and happy, fun and not so fun. We share when new members are added, by birth, marriage or whatever. We are saddened by separations and disagreements, but help each other overcome them. I have come to appreciate that even more after reconnecting with a cousin I had lost touch with over the years. We can only hope that sometime soon bygones can be bygones and the whole family can reconnect. Nothing should be so important that we loose touch with our loved ones. |